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Hey Friend,
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how hard I can be on myself. I have moments where I feel like I should be further along, where I question if I’m doing enough, being enough. And if I’m being honest, that inner voice? It’s not always kind.
But here’s what I’ve been learning—grace is a necessity, not a luxury.
There was a time when I thought healing meant always having it together. That if I did the “right” things, I wouldn’t struggle with the same battles or repeat old patterns. But the truth is, healing isn’t linear. Some days, I feel strong and grounded. Other days, I have to remind myself to breathe through the doubt, to release the weight of perfectionism, and to trust the process.
So if you’re in a season where you feel like you should be further along, where the weight of self-judgment feels heavy—pause. Take a deep breath. Remind yourself that growth isn’t measured by perfection but by persistence. Even on your hardest days, you are still moving forward.
You are not behind. You are not failing. You are evolving.
Give yourself grace today. Extend the same love and patience to yourself that you so freely give to others. And remember—you’re doing better than you think.
Carolyn (Cee) Renee, Christina and 2 others-
Thanks. I needed this 🥺❤️
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@Lexi you are so not alone!
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Yoooo this hit home fa real, thanks @ericamasonmusic for being transparent x vulnerable! You are not alone x we are in this together, doing life together 💜 y’all stayed prayed up x rest, Lord help us rest 🙏🏾
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@Melo means the world to me! Love you big!
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Grace. Yes. I’m finally allowed myself to meet her. I’m so pleased to say I’m putting myself first and my throat chakra is WIDE open. Grace has been so kind and lovely, yup I’ll keep her hostage🥹😊. Honestly, with Grace on my side my crying spells had decreased and I’m starting to hear soft spoken words. I’m realizing the harsh autopilot I had steering my ship. The unintentional self doubt and pain comparisons. Indeed, I will offer the same compassion, patience and support to me, Christina and not just the next person I pass. Thank you for the confirmation and encouragement.
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