So let’s say we are using a snake 🐍 metaphorically speaking for a person really..I would heal of course but it will depend on the situation I suppose…was it a 🐍/ person that they trusted or was that snake pretending to be something it truly wasn’t who knows why ppl do what they do..sounds like to me that they trusted the snake ..snakes will never change they will sit quietly and watch for the most vulnerable prey most times because they are easily taken down mentally or whatever the case may be..we are all different but sounds to me that this person trusted this snake and wanted answers…there are wolf’s in sheeps clothing everywhere…but healing is necessary….when ppl show you who they are trust and believe them..sometimes it’s not about proving you didn’t deserve it…sometimes it’s the trust and safety you have felt in that snake/person/ wolf in sheeps clothing and the hurt that not the bit but what it did that hurt…idk of this makes sense but this is my perspective

Certainty sounds like a trauma triggered reaction with irrational expectations indeed.

Deep