• Hey Friends!!

      Sometimes, closure isn’t about getting the apology, the explanation, or the accountability you deserved. Sometimes, the absence of those things is the closure.

      We spend so much time waiting—waiting for someone to see the pain they caused, waiting for them to say the words we need to hear, waiting for them to finally get it. But what if we stopped waiting?

      This post from We The Urban hit deep because the lack of empathy, respect, or honesty was the answer. The lack of care was the confirmation. The lack of remorse was the conclusion.

      So maybe today, closure isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you decide. You don’t need their words to validate your healing. You don’t need their understanding to move forward. You don’t need their accountability to reclaim your peace.

      Closure is a gift you give yourself. Take it. Breathe. Release. You deserve that freedom.

      Kenya, Leah Bynum and 3 others
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      • Jae

        Whelp…this wasn’t the mirror I wanted to look into today. This post came knocking at my front door 😧

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      • Closure is a decision. Point, blank, period. We often get caught in the “why’s”, and stuck in the lack of accountability and remorse. You may never get the apology, or a satisfactory reason why. But don’t let this keep you from forgiving, healing, and moving forward 🤲🏾❤️‍🔥

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